When Anthony
Cekada expounded his views on Schiavo,
very few Catholics -- traditional or otherwise – agreed with his monstrous conclusions.1 Even within the SGG cult center, people
were up in arms about it. One
parishioner, a woman, wrote to Erroneous Antonius at the time, asking him to
clarify some things that he said (that were obviously WRONG). But in doing so, she was careful not to
offend him; and she showed him the utmost respect and deference possible. And how did Tony respond? As you might expect, Arrogant Anthony
basically told her to “shut up and obey.”
His reply
was vintage “Tony.” After summarizing (and justifying) his position
on Schiavo, he castigated her as
follows: “Finally, the larger problem I
see is that lay traditionalists like you are trying to turn something into a
mortal sin that isn't. You have no
business doing so. You don't have the training in moral theology that priests
have, and you certainly don't have the confessional experience we do in
applying moral principles. But
this doesn't stop you from boldly expressing your ‘opinion’ on the moral issues
in the Schiavo case, because in the
practical order you simply cannot accept the fact that a priest probably knows
a lot more that you do about certain subjects, chief among them, moral
theology. I am supposed to make
the distinctions for you between right and wrong, because I have the training,
the sacramental graces and the experience to do so. But because [you] do not have the humility to recognize this
in practice, you will go on endlessly arguing for your ‘opinion,’ rendering
exchanges like this a waste of the priest's time, and in the process, I fear,
turning traditional Catholics into members of the Church of Lay Opinion.”
She doesn’t have “the
training in moral theology that priests have” or
“the confessional experience we do in applying moral principles”? [Well, we certainly hope to God that she doesn’t have Checkie’s “training”!!] She “cannot
accept the fact that a priest probably knows a lot more that [she does] about
certain subjects, chief among them, moral theology”? [Moral
theology? Are you kidding,
Tony? I wouldn’t trust your “moral
theology” (or Dannie’s) more than that of the
Marquis de Sade’s!] She doesn’t “have the humility”? [Gulp!! Tony, are you “for real”??]) Can anyone ever imagine a more condescending and sarcastic collection
of dung than this? What kind of depraved lunatic (other than Big Don’s
deranged “prefect”) could come up with such crap? Tony insinuated that Terri Schiavo was “brain dead” and was “obviously shutting down.” Tony, it is YOU who are brain dead – or,
at least your conscience is dead.
The
foregoing excerpt, by the way, was part of several
correspondences between this woman and Cekada. [Click here to get to its beginning, then scroll
down to “Fr. Cekada’s (unemotional?) Reply,” and then to point “4” to get to the part that we excerpted.] As we said, this is vintage “Tony” --
and just one of the many examples of the Cheeseburger’s trademark arrogance. But it is more than that: it is misogyny. (That’s undoubtedly why he came out in favor of Michael
Schiavo’s “right before God” to starve and
dehydrate his wife to death: she was a woman.) And, although the Checkmeister is
arrogant, sarcastic, and condescending with both men and women, he is
especially so with the latter.
Of course,
Dannie and Big Don are misogynists as well – but their misogyny goes far beyond
simply “trash-talking” to women.3 At both cult centers, women are treated like slaves;
plus, they are expected to dress like Amish
bag ladies -- even at “social” gatherings. At “church picnics,’ for
example, the womenfolk (including girls) are expected to wear dresses (not pants or shorts), whereas the men can wear almost anything (including shorts) – but God help the women if they wear shorts or
pants.2 It’s also
interesting to note that at “summer camp,” the boys play games that are
basically recreational, whereas the
girls’ “games” are top-heavy with things like sewing, flower arranging, and
other tasks that they’ll later be called upon to perform as cult slaves.
Then there’s
the workload: at both SGG and MHT, there’s a small army of women to do the cleaning,
cooking, and “sacristan” work. At
SGG, for instance, there were at one time two nuns and one lay woman serving as
sacristans. All three of them
quit. The one nun, the primary sacristan -- habitually
overworked (and habitually verbally
abused) by Dannie -- left in disgust, while the other had a nervous breakdown.4 (Both of them, by the way, have left
the religious life altogether, and are now “laity.”) The other (lay) woman left in disgust too (after seeing how
Dannie treated the nuns). And
that’s only the sacristans. In addition to them, Dannie has a corps
of slaves who clean, cook, and iron for him (including church “vestments” and
altar linens). 5
At both
cult centers, too, there’s no “crying room” per
se. At SGG, the mothers must
tend to their infants in a vestibule that is unheated in the winter and un-air-conditioned
in the summer. And if they take
them back there during the sermon, they’re not
allowed to re-enter the church until after the sermon. (There are no chairs in the vestibule,
either – only a hard bench (with no back) – and, behind it, a large picture
whose frame jabs the middle of one’s back while sitting. (It probably came from the local
furniture store’s Marquis de Sade
collection.)
At this
point, we’ll stop giving any more specific examples of the cult masters’
misogyny, because we think that we’ve covered enough of that ground. We’ll just summarize by saying that Dannie
and Tony do their utmost to intimidate
women, and to make them feel (and be) subservient
– almost to an Islamic extent. Just as Tony contended in Terri
Schiavo’s case, it’s the husband who “has the right before God” to determine “what’s “best”
for his spouse. And if a
wife complains, then she is “a raging feminist.” These women-haters have lost all sense of proportion of what
women and womanhood are all about.
But the
cult masters are not content with just being misogynists, because “it takes
more than misogyny to run a cult.”
As cult masters, they must “lord it over” not only women, but everyone. After all,
that’s what cults are all about: making everyone
subservient to their will, even to the extent of superseding the authority and
autonomy of the family itself – dictating
to them what they can and can’t do – even away from the cult center. And that’s exactly what has happened:
according to comments received on Pistrina,
the MHT cult forbids TV in peoples’ homes, no going to movie theaters, no
internet (unless nuns give permission) – you name it.6
Lately,
even more comments have been
surfacing about MHT; and they paint a dark picture -- a lot like SGG, but
perhaps even worse (if one can
imagine that!): substandard academics, unqualified teachers, overly strict
rules, cruel punishments, etc.7 What they say,
of course, is not surprising, and only confirms what many have known for years:
that both SGG and MHT are incompetently run “mediocrity mills,” staffed by amateurs,
and run by self-serving predators. But it is encouraging to see the recent
spate of comments, because it is corroboration coming from those inside his cult -- and in writing.
It’s
encouraging because it’s evidence that people in Brooksville are finally starting to wake up.
It’s evidence that Big Don’s stranglehold on the MHT cult is loosening
(just as is Dannie’s at SGG). It
is known that people at MHT have for some time been disgruntled. But now they’re
talking. And they’re leaving. And all of this is being noticed. More and more, people are beginning to
recognize MHT for what it is -- a CULT -- and are finding the courage to come forward and speak out. Our hope, of course, is that even more
of you find the courage to get out of the
cult. But when you do, you
must “not go gently into that good night.” Be vocal. Let others know – and why. Do not “wimp out” and slither away
sheepishly and silently, as so many traddies are wont to do (no doubt, out of a
false sense of “respect for the
clergy” – which only enables these lepers to perpetuate their mischief). Do not jeopardize your souls by staying
with them. Reject them. Leave them. You, your souls, and
your wallets will be glad you did.
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1 Donald Sanborn, MHT’s deranged rector, did, however -- as we reported the other week in our “special
edition” article. (We normally
publish only every other week, and
last week was an “off” week; but we found a “note” of Big Don’s that had once
been included on a website, but which “someone” later erased to “hide his tracks.”
Fortunately, we had copied it before it was erased – so we published
it. Click here to see it.)
2 Funny, though: when they’re away
from the cult center, the cult masters tolerate “pant suits.” When Dannie was in Argentina, for
instance (doing some unnecessary Confirmations – a pretext to get away from the
cold cult center and enjoy the Argentine spring), he had his picture taken in
front of a group of women, many of whom were in pant suits. ((Cick here for that.) There, where he was “just visiting” (and hence not its “cult
master”), there was no need for him to control
and manipulate by enforcing his “no pants” rule there. (On the contrary: he was there to play Santa Claus and to please them.
Therefore, he was not about to do anything to offend them.)
But back
home at the cult center, not only must they wear dresses, but dresses that meet SGG’s “modesty” requirements:
hemlines well below the knee, collars that hug the neck, and sleeves that are
“long enough” – and definitely nothing
“sleeveless.” (That’s too
“provocative.” But boys watching
porn on the school computer isn’t: that’s
just a case of “boys will be boys”!)
And, of course, opened-toed shoes and “flip-flops” are also verboten, because it would be immodest for a woman to show her “bare
feet.” (Dannie, you’d better cover
up the Blessed Mother’s feet on all those statues! Get the womenfolk to knit her up some socks.)
3 But between the two, we must say Sanborn is more the misogynist,
based upon what this Pistrina
commenter had to say: “Every
other traditional chapel I've been to has wished the parishioners who are
mothers a happy Mother's Day both in the bulletin and from the pulpit during
the weekly announcements. Nothing from MHT this morning. Is this indicative of
how they feel about mothers?” Even Dannie -- misogynist that he is -- wishes the women a “Happy
Mother’s Day,” because he realizes that it is good “public relations.” But the depraved wretch in Brooksville
can’t even do that.
4 The former was made a “novice” nun by Dannie (as if he had the
authority to do so!); but he never made her a “full-fledged” nun. He
always had some reason to say that she wasn’t “ready” to take her “final vows,”
so he “postponed” them indefinitely.
Although she habitually worked long
hours every day as sacristan (and
choir director) -- from early in the morning ’til late at night (often past
midnight) -- Dannie was never satisfied with her work; and he would verbally
berate her on a regular basis. Eventually, after taking this abuse for years,
she “had enough,” and quit.
The nuns,
by the way, were housed off-site. An on-site convent was presumably built
for them (or, at least, that’s what Dannie told his parishioners); but after it
was built, it was used instead to
house priests. The nuns had to drive to SGG everyday
from this off-site convent -- a small, inferior rented facility – adding “commute
time” to an already long day. The “sacristan”
nun once told of a instance when she was so tired when she got home from
working at the church, that she fell asleep in her car. (And, by the way, she – not “the parish” --
paid for the car.)
We might
also add that there was at one time a third nun, Sr. Gerard Vincent (an older
nun, who taught at the school), who died previously. She fell and
broke her hip. But, after a too
brief recuperation period, she was “pressed back into service” – and fell again. This time, she didn’t recover. Shortly afterward, she died. Meanwhile, when Dannie had “sinus
trouble” (that he didn’t want to put up with), he got himself operated on
(followed by a leisurely “convalescence” at the Bishop’s Lodge
in sunny Santa Fe, New Mexico).
Nothing, it seems, was too good for Dannie. (The operation, by the way, didn’t help – another waste of
parishioners’ money.)
5 One parishioner’s wife was once talked into “helping out” with the ironing. She was given an altar linen (that was
soaking wet) to iron. She started
to “wring it out,” but was told that it had to be ironed “wet.” She asked why, but was told, “that’s
the way it has to be done.” She
then asked if she could take the work home with her, but was told, “No, it has
to be done here.” As one
might expect, she quit. The cult masters make sure that the
work is as “labor intensive” as possible (and that the slaves are given no
latitude in making it easier on themselves). The emphasis is not on how efficiently a task can be done, but on maximizing its degree of oppressiveness.
During Holy Week, especially, the tasks were
“make work” projects. The Altar of Repose had to be different every year, and required the
work of several people for almost a week to build. (The nun in charge of it worked past midnight most of the week to
finish it – only to see it used for one
day and then torn down the
next. She, by the way, was the one
who “left in disgust.”) Another
“make work” task was stripping leaves
(which were very “sticky”) from eucalyptus
branches, to be scattered on the floor
during one of the processions – then to be quickly
swept up before the following service, so that Dannie wouldn’t get any of
them “stuck” on his shoes. Adults
and kids alike were “recruited” to do this task. Holy Week (as
usual) was one long, exhaustive ordeal.
6 A recent Pistrina article has reprinted some of the insane rules at
MHT (from an old Christ or Chaos
article), which bear out what recent commenters have had to say. (Click here to see article.)
7 Here’s what one had to say: “The little children that attend Mass on Sunday's at MHT
are like nothing I've ever seen before. Even kids as little as one, two, and
three are expected to sit/kneel, stand still, and assist at Mass like the
adults. Not even a religious book to keep their attention. If they so much as
try to turn around one little bit, the parents are all over them. It's crazy!
Kids that small can't be expected to sit perfectly still and not be distracted
by things going on around them. I'm all for kids assisting respectfully at
Mass, but the behavior I see there is just not normal! It's weird!”
And here’s what another had
to say: “We are parents who just had issues
with Queen of All Saints and MHT with Sandborn and Selway. .. they are nothing
but a pharasiac bunch of uncharitable, controlling freaks. We had our children in their school over
the last two years after long years of Catholic homeschooling...the last two
tears was a parent's worst nightmare...they try to usurp all parental
authority...We rejected their cultish school and church; they do nothing to
help these poor children to practice the 12 Catholic virtues but teach
them,materialism, and all sort of nonsense...Sandborn is the meanest arrogant
man and Selway has temper and denial issues....The vice principal is like Lady
Macbeth" -- look like an innocent flower but be a serpent under it" Most of the false nuns are there...mean
and controlling and spoiled. The whole thing is a joke.
Will
write a whole article about them soon. They are not Catholic period. Sandborn
hates children and indoctrinated the 5 main,families him,and Selway control. Selway told us that only those obeying
Sandborn will go to heaven. That includes the family clique and his own. How presumptuous!!! Selway would lie to your face all,the
time...he favors his family. He is a pathetic daddy's boy who never left his
family. So are the false nuns there. They squeeze all the money from good
working families to ndulge into luxuries...so fake!!! Selway only drink perrier
water! They have no proper school building, labs, gym, etc, no qualified
teachers since, yet they charged tons of money for their controlling
uncharitable family run school. Glad and thankful to God to be out of the evil
cult!!”
No doubt, Big Don (and his hard-core bootlickers) will reject both of these comments as
“scurrilous lies” and “slander” – especially the latter, whose spelling and grammar
they’ll criticize as well. But,
regardless of that, the input is genuine – and true. Plus, there were several
others who mirrored the sentiments of these three. So, Big Don might get away with
dismissing one of them – but not all of them. There are just too many for him to play the “denial” game –
and there will be more. (Actually,
in the past, there have been many who
have quitted the MHT cult center; it’s just that now they are becoming more vocal about it.) So, Donnie, as your buddy, Tasteless
Tony, might put it, “You’re toast!”